Terms of Service

Last updated: May 2026

What this is

Am I The Problem? is a place to submit a personal dilemma and have anonymous strangers vote on whether you're the problem (YTA), not the problem (NTA), or everyone sucks here (ESH).

Verdicts are public

Every completed verdict gets a public, shareable page. Don't submit anything you wouldn't be okay with the internet seeing.

You must be 13 or older

By creating an account you confirm you are at least 13 years old.

We may remove content

Harmful, abusive, illegal, doxxing, or self-harm content can be removed at any time without notice. Users who repeatedly violate these rules may be banned.

No guarantees

Verdicts are the personal opinions of anonymous strangers (or AI fallbacks if not enough humans are available). They are not accurate, official, or representative of anything beyond entertainment.

Not professional advice

Nothing here is legal, medical, mental-health, or relationship advice. If you need real help, reach out to a qualified professional or visit findahelpline.com.